You’ve locked in the person you want to spend forever with — and now it’s time to choose a perfect resort for your destination wedding. Sounds exciting, right?

But once you start researching, you quickly realize that choosing the perfect resort for your destination wedding isn’t as simple as picking the prettiest beach photo. Every option looks dreamy, yet you’re left wondering:

• Are these photos even real?
• Will my guests actually like staying here?
• What if I miss an important detail and it ruins the day?
• How do I know this resort is truly right for us?

I get it—choosing the right resort can feel overwhelming. It’s one of the most important decisions you’ll make for your destination wedding because it impacts everything: the atmosphere, the guest experience, the logistics, and ultimately, your memories.

Here’s the good news—you don’t have to pick blindly. Below, I’m breaking down 10 things to look for when choosing a resort for your destination wedding so you can feel confident and excited about your choice.

1. Ceremony & Reception Locations

Do you want your toes in the sand, or would you prefer an ocean-view terrace where you don’t have to worry about the tide? Do you love the idea of a lush garden ceremony, or a sleek ballroom that keeps you in air conditioning?

Ask the resort for photos and videos of their ceremony and reception spaces during the time of year you’re considering. Lighting changes dramatically between midday and sunset, and what looks private in photos might be right next to a busy pool.

2. Wedding Package Inclusions

Some packages include just the basics—ceremony setup, flowers, officiant, and cake—while others include photography, live music, and a cocktail hour.

Read the fine print carefully, and compare what’s included with your wish list. If you know you want upgraded décor, a private reception, or specific entertainment, ask whether the resort offers it and what it costs.

3. Guest Experience & Room Options

Your guests are traveling for you, so their comfort matters. Look for a range of room categories—budget-friendly for some, upgraded suites for others. Check the dining options, entertainment, and whether there’s something for both kids and adults.

4. Group Perks & Benefits

Booking as a group can mean discounted rates, free nights, or even a complimentary wedding package if you meet certain booking numbers.

5. Accessibility & Travel Logistics

Consider how easy it will be for guests to get there. Is it close to a major airport? Is the transfer comfortable? Long travel times might discourage some guests from coming.

6. Privacy for Your Wedding Day

Some resorts host multiple weddings per day. If privacy is important, ask how many weddings they typically host and whether your location will be exclusive.

7. Weather & Seasonal Considerations

Know the climate for your wedding month—rainy season, hurricane season, or high humidity can all affect your day. Always have a backup location that’s equally beautiful.

8. Food & Beverage Quality

Your reception meal should be memorable for the right reasons. Look at reviews for food and drinks, ask about menu customization, and check if dietary needs can be met.

9. On-Site Wedding Team Communication

Your wedding coordinator will be your lifeline. Look for responsiveness, clarity, and a willingness to answer your questions before you commit.

10. Vibe & Atmosphere

Every resort has a personality—romantic and serene, or lively and fun. Choose one that matches your vision and energy.

When you break it down, choosing the right resort isn’t about finding the prettiest beach—it’s about finding a place that fits your vision, works for your guests, and delivers an experience you’ll look back on with joy.

When it comes to choosing a resort for your destination wedding, gets so much easier when you know exactly what to look for. That’s why I’ve put together a free Destination Wedding Resort Checklist for you — so you can keep all these tips handy while researching and avoid any last-minute regrets. 📥 Click here to get your free checklist

And if the thought of sorting through hundreds of resorts still makes your head spin, you don’t have to do it alone. I help couples every day find the perfect resort for their destination wedding—one that matches their style, meets their needs, and gives them peace of mind from the very first “yes” to the last dance.

💬 Schedule a free consultation with me and we’ll find your dream resort together—so you can focus on the fun, not the stress.